Prep the vegetables. Shred the cabbages, julienne the carrots, and slice the bell pepper and green onions.
Roughly chop the cilantro and mint. Add everything to a large mixing bowl.
Toast the nuts and seeds. In a dry skillet over medium heat, toast the almonds or peanuts for 2–3 minutes until fragrant. Add sesame seeds for the last minute.
Let cool slightly.
Make the dressing. In a jar or small bowl, whisk tamari, lime juice, rice vinegar, honey, sesame oil, neutral oil, ginger, garlic, chili, and salt until smooth and emulsified.
Taste and adjust. Check the dressing. Add more lime for brightness, honey for balance, or tamari for saltiness. It should taste slightly bold since it will mellow when tossed with the slaw.
Toss the slaw. Pour the dressing over the vegetables and toss thoroughly to coat.
Sprinkle in most of the toasted nuts and seeds, saving a little for garnish. Toss again.
Rest briefly. Let the slaw sit for 10–15 minutes so the flavors mingle and the cabbage softens slightly while staying crisp.
Serve. Transfer to a platter or bowl and top with remaining nuts and seeds. Add a few extra herb leaves for color if you like.